[Angela]

Alan, this must have been an incredibly emotional post for you to make. Firstly, my sincere condolences on the loss of your grandchild, that must have been a terrible thing for all of you to bear.

I'm not sure it was something that I could have done but I presume you did this with the blessing of the child's parents and, at the end of the day, it is their thoughts that are important and not those of other members of the family. If it brings them some comfort then that is all that matters.