[Sparhawk]

Please allow me also to pass on my condolences at what {for all of you a very emotional time}
As has been said if it is what the parents wanted that is all that matters, all of you have photos to look at and remember a loved child and I believe that is the most important thing.
I whole heartedly agree with Silkstone's comments and hope that {in time} the pain will ease
Regards
Sparhawk