Charlotte
There are only really two books that you need IMHO
The Art of Digital Wedding Photography by Bambi Cantrell & Skip Cohen
and
Contemporary Wedding Photography by Julie Oswin & Steve Walton
They're my "bibles", so to speak - and I've found I've never needed any other guides.
As to the albums, well - for the ultimate finish, there's really only one supplier I can recommend
Graphistudio - Home
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You're going to need a second body for back-up purposes, a shedload of CF cards and I might suggest the 70-200VR lens to replace your 70-300VR... if you can't afford these, then rent them for the day from hireacamera.co.uk