Steve
You have hit on one of my pet hates "ring tones"

I know people want to know when they are being called and "need" to know its their phone but these "tunes" drive me up the wall. If I am out and remember to take mine with me I have it on "silent Throb" that way {as i carry it in my pocket} as the smile breaks across my face I know someone wants me

and I am not inflicting noise on anyone else
Regards
Sparhawk